The second therapist I see asked me if I needed more talk from her or less/more distance or less distance/ sitting facing each other or sideways and so forth - so she asked what would help me and was willing to modify for me until my anxiety went down some. So I do believe some are more willing than others to modify their approach to help a client. With the second, because she helped, my anxiety went down a lot in a few months. With the first one I see, it is still fairly high after 4 years and I believe any reduction is due to the second therapist and not the first.