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Old Jun 09, 2014, 12:13 AM
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Originally Posted by Lovebird View Post
but every time a company says to me, "We're not hiring right now," I am conditioned to translate this as, "We're not hiring YOU."
Turn it around. Decide specifically what you want and be picky about it and go to some interviews where you decide that job is not the job you want. I deliberately took part-time, seasonal, jobs for 10 years to practice interviewing and picking a job and then ending it when it no longer was what was part of my plan. It is a two-way street and can build self-esteem if you can realize you don't want to be just a young teenager with a negative dress size, that that is not you so that job is not one that you would like either.
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