I don't think it's a good idea to go just to see her...if you were planning to go already and found out she was going to be there, I would say go anyway, but that doesn't seem to be the case here. I wouldn't call it "stalking" either way, though...I just don't think it's in your best interest for you to go. I doubt you would feel less nervous just by seeing her ride. I think you are nervous re: this big upcoming change in your life, and that you should definitely tell her when you meet her!