I do not think seeing her as a guide suggests I am not her equal, I'm definitely that. I also consider myself the expert on me. However, she has 20+ years experience in working through mental health and relationship issues, so... I acknowledge her expertise and ability to walk me through the difficult work we're doing.

We're definitely a team and I've also taught her things, just as teachers learn from students, but I don't pretend to have her insight into psychology or experience helping hundreds of clients with similar issues.