I firmly believe there is someone for everyone...the trick is allowing yourself to be realistic about who that is....I tried for years to live a particular type of woman....both my ex's where the type that appeared to be very stable and successful...I think I looked on that to hold me up and make me feel more stable. (this was well before I was diagnosed)

Then, I found my current wife, who has her issues and is very open about them...but also helps me step and deal with my own issues...she's completely different from the women I had been dating...and that's what makes this work.