I don't think you're being a jerk. It's normal to feel annoyed over money issues.
Like what others have said, if this T has been helping in your path to wellness, please please do not quit seeing her. Talk it out with the person in charge, and if need be.. talk about it with T and she might be able to help.
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"The is no better exercise for the human heart than reaching and lifting others up." - John Holmes
herethennow: This ward is a prison!
Wardmate: No.. here's not a prison. *points to brain* Here is.
dx: recurrent MDD.