i definately think shouting is bad for people children and adults. I know as i am still afraid of someone shouting at me especially when is a social situation, i've experienced abuse from an ex that would love to embarrass me in restaurants and other public places. His mother embarrassed me so bad too, he followed in her footsteps. It is debilitating and abusive and i never want to feel that bad again, and to let people here know that was the backbone of our seperation.