hmmmmmm, an interesting dilema. I'd way the odds........ lose this boy friend, and seek out a reletionship with this other guy, or stay with the boy toy, and forget the new guy. I'd sleep on it........... but remember, ex's are ex's for a reason, and you never did break up with this other guy.......... so maybe you should give him a chance. Hell if you were real daring, you could balance them both and see whatr happens.......... but it isn't very nice to do so, so maybe you shouldn't. Huh..........I don't know for sure what I'd do, but I think I would dump the old guy since he is an ex, and I would go galavanting after this new man........ he sounds kool!