Sure you can practice being cool like T! She's a role model too. Did you read when I told my story of wearing my wedding ring only on days I went to T because I liked the look of T's hand with her band on? A friend at work saw it and exclaimed, "I've never seen you wear your ring" and I almost answered, "I only wear it on Friday's!" but my head stopped me at the ridiculousness of saying that and I started to laugh. Of course, I had to tell my coworker the "joke" and we both laughed. Later that day I told my T the whole story (including how I admired the look of strength her hands made me feel) and she and I laughed at what I almost replied and she said it would have sounded like I was part of some cult or something