yeah, i'm a bit shy. i don't much like sexual jokes and i guess i have ideas that are a bit different from others (i find that vibrators and pornography and the like result in my feeling squeemish). but i have had a couple of interesting conversations with people about whether to shave or not to shave down there at parties (interesting how there are cultural differences with respect to european / australasian culture etc). but i guess we were really rather drunk. and the scrunching or folding issue and another issue that i'd never really even thought was an issue (i guess it is for guys more than gals) between standing and squatting when you are doing the folding or scrunching thing...

with respect to my therapist... i've mentioned that a. (not me) has risky sexual encounters sometimes. and thats all. i think he has said a thing or two and he realises that i don't do relationships. i think i said that 'i don't like that' but i'm not really sure where that came from 'cause sure i do. dunno. embarrassed i guess. maybe... little ears were listening lol.