I do. I ask him, its a new and recent thing after a brief paranoia episode. For a long time anytime he messaged people on Facebook I'd get both his message and there's. That's until he found out. I was scrolling through his messages about 2 wks ago. He caught me reading his texts and asked if the conversation was to my approval . later that night came the: you use to believe in privacy, why can't you trust me you know I wouldn't do anything conversation. It doesn't start a fight he down right refuses to fight with me when I'm irrational.