I am a 25 year old female with a child who is 4 years old. For most of my later teenage years I had a normal sex drive. Before I became pregnant I started losing interest in sex. During my pregnancy my sex drive was insatiable, however shortly after I had her it started declining again. I have a want for companionship, but intimacy seems pointless, even irritating at times. I have a healthy relationship now, but I dont want sex. I feel attraction and on occassion I still get aroused, but I dont want physical intimacy. My question is can you just become asexual, or is it maybe something else going on. Hormone levels are all normal, physically im healthy, I just dislike sex. It feels like a chore more than pleasure to allow someone to touch me in a sexual manner. Kissing, hugging, holding hands, its all obnoxious and seems like a waste of time. Im starting to feel like I dont even want the relationship part because I know how most people in general put emphasis on the physical part. Is it weird to want to be with someone and have a loving relationship without any kind of sexual touch ever?
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