Hello, nightfox, and welcome to Psych Central! Of course you are right that people have their own opinions, and they don't need to been seen as right or wrong.

At least women these days can choose not to breastfeed.

Yes, it can be somewhat of a turn-on. I never perceived that it was like having a sexual relationship with my children. In fact, it can be painful when a child latches on and then starts getting teeth!