I am sorry that you have had a bad day OE, and for all the other horrid things you have had to deal with. They were not fair and it is understandable that you are struggling. I do hope that you are dong some things to take care of yourself, and are talking regularly to your T. Kind to you.

I think resolving the gender gap (in many areas of life) may not happen in my life time, and many times it feels incredibly wrong to be treated as less than just for being a woman.

I try not to dwell on it.