Yes, this has been going on for years. I haven't held a real job for a dozen years or so. But even before that it was like if I wasn't working evenings & weekends, in addition to my regular 40 hours per week, I just wasn't cutting the mustard, as the saying goes. Now, I've aged into retirement & I do have sort-of a volunteer position. So that expectation is no longer there. But I'm sure it's as bad today, if not worse, than it was when I was working. It's as though, if you're not running around like the proverbial chicken with its head cut off, you're just a waste of skin! It's become a badge of honor...