The suggestions are the worst part! I lost a very good friendship over that. A friend kept throwing work my way and started to get angry when I declined. No matter how many times I told him that I wasn't interested, he kept doing it. I got to the point where I just didn't want to deal with his judgment anymore. I'm living off my own savings, not anything else. I don't see why it's a moral issue if I choose to take some time off.