Lark I know what you mean. I don't know why there has to be a stigma attached to mental illness. Everybody gives you love if you have a broken leg or a physical illness. When you have a mental illness people say "just get over it." They act like you can control it. I wish that were true, then we would all feel better today. Then people think all the wrong things with mental illness. I am afraid to tell most people in my world because I don't want to face the judgment. Best of wishes to you.