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Originally Posted by Bill3
I appreciate that you are keeping the details here private, but based on what you have shared here I am wondering how your asking to speak with your bf about something that concerns you and gives you fear constitutes you screwing up, and warrants him getting mad at you.
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I agree with bill. It just seems odd, that because he evidently didn't want to address your concern (rational or not, and face it, nobody is totally rational ALL of the time) suddenly makes it ok for him to be mad at you.
As bill said, not knowing the whyfors, it's difficult to give a lot of advice except on how to calm you..but in this case, I think it's not just a 'you' issue, darlin.....he needs to come to terms with your concerns (just as I'm sure he would expect you to come to terms with his) and not make you feel you screwed up because you tried to be honest and let him into your thoughts, with an eye to relieving them.
Just sayin.
