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ozzie, I'm sorry, I'm lost for words at the present time, but it sounds like he can use some counseling, or return to it, if has ever tried it.
I think maybe the "place" he's in, may be adding to his sour attitude? I know when my husband feels threatened at his job (they always are merging with other companies) or is angst, he'll make comments or do things to try my emotions, I think my husband is in denial about possibly going through depression, sadly guys from our era and our parents, feel depression/anxiety is a sign of weakness and/or loss of power, so they resent the fact that they too, can be victims of depression. This is just my feelings.
Don't let yourself be giving up things you enjoy or enjoyed, I've done this, and I'm feeling physically and emotionally exhausted and have fallen in a terrible rut.
I wish some husbands would realize if they'd allow us to be more than just "maids" we'd be happy and more pleasant to be around, then maybe both will be happier?
Just my own opinion and thoughts on this.
There's a huge lack of support in my home lately, and I really feel for you and what you are going through.
Take care now, and PM me anytime if you wish.
Roe

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