I've been seeing someone long distance (he's in England for now until we move in together by this time next year) for almost two years (known each other for three). He and I got together by bonding over mutual things we went through and he was my best friend before we dated.. About five months in he and I began fighting. The thing is, we fight because he purposely ignores me and blanks me out (yet insists I be in skype call w him all day.. Which would be ok if he wasn't being this way). And more recently (the past month) he's started telling me what I can and can't do (yet if I flip the tables to prove a point he says it's controlling), he calls me pathetic,clingy,controlling,attention seeking. He won't even let me vent to family or friends. It hurts so much.. He also won't be intimate with me now, even if I want to be. He sneaks off if you catch my drift... Am I crazy or am I right to think he's projecting or something is up? He says I make it up in my head to make him the bad guy.. So I started keeping a log with an app called boyfriend log for my idevice. I write down things exactly as they happen so I remember.. And even if I recite what he says (or avoids saying) he says in wrong and acts like I'm some disgusting thing he hates on the bottom of his shoe.. I am lost and worst because of my past I have co-dependency which gets triggered by these situations.. When calm I can function just fine.. Am I nuts?