I to never want to hve an emotional attachment to T. I don't allow it with her or anyone really except my partner. I grew up somewhat like u not allowed to cry or show emotion. I see T almost every other week for 2 1/2yrs ( thought it was 3 but all time blends for me). T recently told me I can call or text anytime I need to. I know I won't. I'm very white and black on the issue no gray area. I have my scheduled appt and that's that no extra no less. No attachment.