Hi froggie2. I had a dear friend once whose nickname was froggie.

My husband and I go on dates every weekend. We really enjoy it. We are movie buffs. Hubby doesn't like cuddling at all! He will hold hands and that's about it.

He is retired and lonely and has depression. He doesn't want me to spend more time with him or even to talk to him around here. He gets very cranky when I do. He often tells me to go somewhere else. He thinks it's his turn to have the place to himself and he wants me gone. ( He should have it to himself for 40 years and clean house, do laundry and raise 4 kids while having it to himself. )
The other day he was mad and told me to go somewhere so I did and he was on his own for his dinner. I think he skipped it. (he can't cook and there were no leftovers) I was gone for several hours shopping. Maybe he'll think twice before he tells me that again. I know he didn't sleep much at all that night. I wonder if he realized how hurtful his statements are?