He called and she was upstairs he didnt answer and I knew the girl that the # was stored under so i called back and got his voicemail she confessed when i asked her and she said she is vbery sorry . I was married for 3 yrs to a woman that was still in love with her ex and thats what scares me. We are willing to work on it i have to learn to forgive then trust again hard thing to do.