Coach,

These kind of situations can be very tough.

Your wife probably feels guilt associated with leaving her first husband. Now she is creating another whole situation with you to feel guilty about.

I think it would be wise for you not to trust her for awhile, until things calm down and she has proved she can be trusted again.

My hairdresser was "forced" to get a divorce from her husband, because he wanted to remarry his first wife.

Things can get strange.

Hugs,

EJ