Yes my t agrees 100 percent with what you just said, I suppose that will be a topic from now on, we are going to talk about how I grew up what I was taught and nurturing and all that stuff, before csa stuff, like i said she delayed the exposure, as she said it is not time yet. I have a hard time grasping the whole inner child thing, and once I told her, that just because you didnt get hugged as a kid, doesnt have anything to do with how I am now, I said that because I didnt want to act like a whiny adult who was not hugged as a kid.