Thank you. This has always bothered me quite a lot so I didn't know how to handle it or how it would be seen.. didn't really have the chance to address it until now.
Therapy has become so hard, your words really made me feel better.
Uh, I've heard the phrase before. It's true
I am just sooo worried that it still makes me a dangerous person to her even after years.. but I had no idea of what other people think and I just remember it being a big deal at the time.
I have the urge to bring it up though. Like, asking T if her idea of me might ever change and if there's a line for what could be "too much". Which is more about me and my self esteem than about her liking me as client, I know..
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Originally Posted by Leah123
Don't make the mistake of judging yourself then by adult standards.
Let me challenge you to work harder when looking for a counteracting example, something to refute the idea of you as evil. If you haven't thought of one, you're not trying hard enough.  |
You are right
Yeah I was looking for something "bigger" to balance the entity of the other action, but maybe it is better to find more "little" deeds. I'm not good at homework, sigh. I really hope I will be free one day, as these moments make me realize how easily I get stuck in this sort of things and thoughts.