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Originally Posted by TRNRMOM
i agree 100% with what everyone has posted in regard to your dilemma and how to handle this friendship/work relationship/extramarital…only thing i can add is to ask what YOU are getting from this friendship which i would hope should be mutually/equally satisfying to her and to you…seems you are becoming emotionally drained from all the drama…getting sucked into all the details…yet i wonder what benefit you are receiving from holding onto what appears to be a very 1-sided friendship. let her go, grief the loss of the friendshipnd find a more equal and supportive girlfriend who gives back to you instead of merely takes from you….jmo
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My question about letting this friendship go is do I just let it fade or do I confront it and let it be known my exact position and rational? I unfortunately tend to be one of the people that needs closer. I don't do the whole let it just fade thing really well. I get frustrated by it and just want to have a line drawn in the sand so to speak. I know it's not a good thing to do or be but if I'm to choose the later I need some good solid advice how to do the quite exit. I do believe that I do deserve better and should be getting a whole lot more out of this friendship than this. I'm just having a hard time accepting it. Thank you for the words and encouragement.