Please HazelGirl try not to take my response negativelyI'm not sure what it would do to help you to know, and yes I've heard the discussion before, especially about this diagnosis. You could be psychologically tested if you want a "more definitive answer." Will knowing get you to connect the dots to move you farther along in your healing? If so, a diagnosis would be a good thing. But, IMHO, I would just stick with battling out the symptoms with your therapist, and do therapy with her.

From what you post, it sounds like you have a Da#%*€ Good therapist, that wants to be there for you.