It is not totally uncommon to have such feelings when an ex connects with someone new. It takes time getting used to. I'm glad your in a happy relationship now. It will just take time for you to get used to your ex being with someone else. And don't assume he treats her better than he did you.
Just do your best to continue to show your love for your son. He will know what is true and what isn't.
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