Maybe show them a copy of your post. You explained it really well and I think a lot of us with mental health issues get that response a lot. I remember my mother especially watched me for signs of depression so she always got the paste on smile.

Sounds like your husband is really worried about you and wants to be attentive. Being too attentive can get annoying. But those who know us about our illness worry about us sometimes overly so. We just have to learn to let it roll off our backs.