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Old Jun 13, 2014, 02:04 PM
pianolover pianolover is offline
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Hi everyone! I had originally posted this in the "General Q&A" section, but it was made evident that I might be able to get more responses here~ So sorry for the double post >_<;;;

Anyways, I've been seeing my current therapist for about a year. She is very nice, but there are a few things I have noticed about her that have become a bit bothersome to me. Lately we've been having appointments once or twice a month, as things in my life have become more stable. I've been facebook friends with my T for a few months now, and I've noticed that lately, she seems to comment on almost EVERYTHING I post. I'm talking not even useful comments, comments like "Lol". Also, at the end of every appointment, and at the beginning of my last few appointments, too, she's given me the loooongest hugs. I'm not a huggy person unless you're one of my close friends, and it's a bit much and makes me uncomfortable when she constantly hugs me, and doesn't ask permission for it ("I need a hug!" she'll always say). Also, she brings up things that I've said I don't want to talk about, and she tends to laugh at things I say a lot, which is alright, but once or twice, when I've come across a problem, she's started laughing, and said, "You're screwed!". I don't know what to do anymore. I luckily had my appointment cancelled for this month, but I really don't want to see her next month, in fear that she'll hug me and talk about how much she's 'missed' me (she does this quite a lot). I guess it's 'sweet' and what-not, but it's a bit too much for a person who likes their space.

Any advice, or input from you guys would be great~ Thank you so much in advance