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i can be a a total basta,rd when it comes to using other dx against them, i only resort to that when it is used against me, does that make me a bad person?

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Nope, not a bad person. But a person who behaves badly at times. As would be the other party who used your diagnosis against you.

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it is a defence mechinism universally used by everyone

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Universally used by everyone? Hardly. There's that old saying, "If all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail." Lots of folks have more tools in their toolbox than a hammer. Gosh, many of them when used properly not only don't cause others harm, but actually do good. No need to sugarcoat that.

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