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He told me that if I wasn't comfortable with him he would refer me to a female.

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I am curious as to why he would suggest this. Were you guys talking about something that would lead him to this idea?

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It was a huge leap for me to tell him that I haven't been doing very well the last few weeks.

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That's excellent, Purple. I hope your T realized this as well. This is evidence that you can talk about things that are difficult. Just take it a little at a time. I didn't start to really open up to my T until I had been with him for about a year. Now it has been a year and a half. I have made huge strides, but I still struggle. There is a lot I want to say to him. When you are ready, it will come out.