Hi, Mapleburn15, and welcome to Psych Central! That doesn't strike me as what is called co-dependency, but more like not being able to let go, if that has a psychological term.

Actually, I suggest you post about this issue in the Relationships and Communication forum. Here is the link: http://forums.psychcentral.com/relat...communication/.

I hope you can get busy, get out and meet other men, and move on soon. And get some therapy at some point if you can't let go, from a clinic or other place that doesn't cost a lot.