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Originally Posted by allme
I have been with my hubby for 15 years and can safely say we are doing great. Saying that, we of course have had our hard times. We never gave up on the hard times and always came out stronger for it.
The thing is though, I don't think you can judge any relationship watching it from the outside. No one but that couple really know what goes on behind closed doors.
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Agreed - it really only matters what is between the both of you. I'm most impressed when couples can get through the difficult times. The good times are easy.
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