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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006
Not sure what this means. Can you elaborate on what you mean about giving too much power? I dunno but it comes off as standoffish for a new budding, possible relationship. You don't want to be expecting the worst, but just relax and let things happen. Once you're on the defensive with those kinds of thoughts you're going to be on the wrong footing in my opinion. I agree with just a friendly hello is a good thing but just by saying that YOU are over thinking it too.
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it means that rolan is giving this chick a lot of power over his feelings. rolan doesn't even know this chick, yet, and the thought of this chick is making rolan have all these strong feelings and if this chick does decline or doesn't reply then rolan is going to take it hard since he's got a lot of emotion tied up into this. hence, he's giving her too much power over his emotions/feelings.
but i'm glad she replied, this is good news rolan. i'm also happy for you. but like s4ndm4n said, don't get gung ho and over do things cause you may ultimately push her away.. i've done this before and it sucks
