We're supposed to breathe!

Thanks... seeing T today before he goes out of town... I think what I'm trying to deal with... How to NOT think in black and white so I can understand thinking with grey. I can't engage fully with grey areas, because I generally think in black and white ... hmmm it's like... the "grey" areas are color... and the only "colors" I have are black and white. (not all the time, but in reference to things of my own)