What I'm saying is that for many of us 130/40 is optimum ...really a goal or target weight but you consider it overweight. For that girl 74 is her 105. She was only 4 months younger vs your 10...I'm not saying it's identical but that there are paralells and yes I know it's because of the meds but gaining weight usually isn't anybodies fault it just happens either due to genetics,age ,ability to afford a healthy diet, personal trainer...whatever the reason it's not like people set out to become fat, at least not in this culture. I just wanted to point out that you being upset about weight gain is similar to what these girls are feeling...

I think you're entitled to feel however you want about it but then so are they...