Well, in response to her ?????? I simply sent her the website link for her page I found with the other therapy service.

I did not send it at first because I thought the site we use now wouldn't allow her to use other sites, and I did not want her to feel afraid to be sanctioned if I was specific, because the emails can be monitored. However, I reread their terms of service, and the site we use says experts can use other sites too, so... knowing that she couldn't get in trouble for this, I sent her the link. Sigh.

I don't think I want this drama, but... I don't want to ignore this either, I'm upset by it.