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Originally Posted by SMOOVEBLANCOO
hey
im in my 3rd year of college.
my mom has made it very clear that no matter what i do, i cant ever make up for the damage ive done.
stressful!!!
my mom told me yesterday im 20 years old and i have nothing to show for myself. she said that when her friends talk about their kids and about how theyre going to different states and countries for careers, that she cant talk about me because she has nothing good to say about me. i think that hurt, it hurt alot
Anyways the point where im trying to get at is... should i be trying the rest of my life to prove to them that im not the crazy child they think i am? do i have to always feel sorry and dwell on my mistakes to make them feel better? .
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You are in your third year of college.
If times are tough, while our children are young, it's not their fault. I,as a mom, to minors, can picture myself telling them, that some days they gave me a run for my money, but to blame because life hands a bucket of lemons?oh....i think not!!!
It will take time, to fight off those internal tapes of feeling you must prove yourself, it won't be easy, but it can happen.
I'm going to ditto, above...
Wtf??
Sorry she's clueless that she has a daughter who owns her truth. Her loss.
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