"I gave you solutions, but you don't want to do anything!" I can't help it if my OCD is this bad right now.

That part in your post really stuck out to me. Obviously those that you live with get frustrated with things that you do to control your OCD, but I think they fail to realize how frustrating it is for you to feel this way and then try to control it.

I agree with you about the drug things. Everyone is quick to think medication is the best and sometimes it is, but for some, there are problems.

As far as your obsessive paper towel usage, do you use hand sanitizer? or what are your thoughts on that? It might be easier to suggest ideas if I could get inside your life, which I obviously cant fully do, but i can try

Also, is there a way that you can wait to move into the new house until you get new furniture for it? Possibly sell your old ones? I understand your concern about the house would feel dirty with it in there, so I think it would be best for you to express to your bf that you dont want the old furniture in the house. Maybe you don't have to mention it is OCD related.

Sorry, I can't be much help, but I'll try..