A.Lone thank you, it is nice to hear people understand and can relate; to offer supportive suggestions.

I know, it is very difficult at work, besides just dealing with women in general is hard enough but as everyone has kids, married or in a serious relationship, they can't relate to me being single and childless so its even more of a reason for them to not bother with me. All day long they just talk about their families and I have nothing to contribute. Women who don't have children are forced to relate but we can't contribute and women who have children don't want to talk or try to relate to childless women. Its more of a reason to just keep to myself. Its hard to socialize anyway when all the work gets dumped on me anyway.

The few hobbies I use to have, really weren't hobbies that you socialize. The first was riflery, which I did since a child but haven't done in a few years. The second was equestrian, and I had a horse, but she died a year after my divorce and haven't ridden since. Where I live now, these things are not am option for me to do.