I think if you wanted it like your previous situation, that is still your transference talking. No telling what T's feelings were. Even if she behaved the same as your professor, still would not know her background to know if it what was hers (nicoleflynn's feelings) and what were her transference issues, if she wasn't already aware of them. T's learn to use their counter-transference to help inform them with cases, not get in the way like our transference does to us at first.