Today, I've been surprised at my email response to him last night, dreading to see a response from him in my email, but none has appeared. I suspect he is baffled and very angry, and when and if I get a reply it will be very caustic and insulting, not only to me but to women in general.
Pat, you have described this man to a T! You have great insights...enabled and coddled by mother and sister.
At my age, I can no longer accomodate a self-absorbed man, and because of previous experiences, had promised myself if the mention of pornography as a pastime came up, I'd speak up immediately (having held my tongue in the unfortunate past!).
Also, having been the victim of a conniving Narcissist, my antennae are on red flag alert, I guess.
Narcissists cannot stand to be criticized, and always turn the tables to the person giving the critique. I have no sympathy.
Patty
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