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Originally Posted by dilemma-girl
He tells me that people are mocking him for being with me, and giving him sarcastic looks/grins when he passes by them. Basically, whenever we are away or we have sex when I am uninterested, he says these things or asks me why I lost my virginity and that I should go back to my ex. If we have a great day together, he praises me to heaven. He says that he can't face those people and that I am a city girl who never cares for others, but he is so in love with me that he can't leave me.
I just love him and every time I try to leave, I find myself unable to  .
I sometimes wish that he will make a mistake and just leave me by himself just as my ex did (my ex cheated on me and it made things easy to breakup). |
First of all, sex when you aren't interested isn't lovemaking, it's coercing and frankly it's about a power trip, control, etc. Then after he's thru finishing with you, he mocks you and degrades you. This isn't love!
Second, hoping for him to end it, is wishful thinking. So long as he's got you to use, misuse and abuse, why would someone like this need to leave..
The power belongs in your hands.
Tell him No and goodbye.
Then find a good therapist to work through the victim trauma.
You can do this! !!
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