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Let me ask you this....If you could complete a task, why would you fake it or pretend to be lazy....? You wouldn't - you would just do it.... there are all kind of rewards for acomplishing something externally and internally. If your brain does not know how to do it...IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT!
If your brain does not know how to do something..it withdraws and you follow. I do not care how many times you put the brain back there - if it does not understand it will pull away. When your brain knows how to do something...you can focus and stay on task like crazy!
We are learning so much more about retraining the brain - at any age...do not give up hope. I'm sure you have many talents...do not let school or society dictate "who you are" and the talents that are meaningful to you!
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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