My T never told me it was a personality trait....I'm not sure. See I think I know what u mean in reference to the 2 ppl that never apologize. My step-dad is like that. He is uncomfortable apologizing and acts like nothing happened. Some ppl will go buy the person they have wronged a gift (my mom).
It might be a personality thing and it is heightened by my bipolar 1 (extreme mania). Anytime I do something to someone, toward or attempt to I feel justified because they provoke me. Period. I do ask explain to family what my triggers are. However they tend to not retain info pertaining to me very well.

I have attempted to have a conscience by apologizing but I stopped trying. My oldest daughter would get mad bc she could tell I did not mean it. She was correct. She hit a trigger after being told it was one...so she got the outcome. I went for a disability hearing and the judge I had asked me "do u not have any remorse"? I truthfully answered the question. No. The killer part is I didn't use to be this why!!! I have been concerned abt it and mentioned it to my T, and pdoc. My bad did mean to type a book. LOL

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