Getting out of bed and getting started can be the hardest part of someone with depression day. It is difficult and you aren't alone in that. Are you seeing a therapist to talk about these major life events? Maybe that could help you deal with them easier. Sometimes talking it through is very helpful. Also if the depression and anxiety is controlled well have you thought of looking into medication? If you find one that work it may help with the getting up in the mornings and getting going.