I have been dating my girlfriend for two months, and have been talking to her for 6 months. It seems much longer as we get along perfectly and are working on our future. There is just one huge issue that has continued make both of us very uncomfortable. Her past relationships. She had a two year relationship with a good friend of mine who took her virginity. She has made out with 4 other friends and talked to one for about a summer. She also tried to pursue a friends with benefits relationship with one of my really good friends, and this only did not happen because HE did not want it too. She pushed for it. She even got upset with me one day because I did not help her pursue this relationship when we were just friends. The one big issue is that she told me the last time she had sex with the friend that she was in a two year relationship, he was very forceful AMD choked her. She said she has went to therapy because it was traumatic. This past has caused a lot of problems. Do I have a right to be this distraught? I just burn with the thing s she told.me she would graphically so to a friend sexually when we were friends. I don't want to end it because I knew about this going in and it wouldn't be fair, plus, I like her. She's been very good to.ke. I.just want advice on getting.past this. How would you feel? And what is advice on moving forward?
Last edited by FooZe; Jun 16, 2014 at 04:47 AM.
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