I understand you are hurting and that is why I believe it would be in your best interest to deal with that pain before you go trying to hurt someone else with public shaming.

I am not against public shaming but doing right thing shouldn't be led by anger.

I guess what I am saying is get a grip on the blow out. The other things compounded your trauma but you need to start at the heart of the matter

I'll come back to this post if I shout out in my anger. It's no easier said than done. I know its right but damn...took a while to put it in words that I might even believe.